How to find out if someones gay

But it seems to be there when I look. It is…maybe a certain way in which some of them…set their mouths? All of the guys were dressed like gangstas, and had mean looks on their faces, and were even checking us out! He Has Predominantly Male Friendships. But some tell-tale signs may make you raise an eyebrow.

I knew some would think I really mean overly effeminate mannerisms. Pay Attention to Body Language and Eye Contact: Body language can be a powerful tool in understanding someone’s feelings or preferences without having a direct conversation. In fact, I bet a good portion of gay men do not do this.

Or am I being really, really stupid with this? Everyone seems to know they are gay. That means that they do not go out of their way to act feminine…on the contrary, the really try to thug it up. I can still tell…I think…by looking at their faces. Here are three ways to discreetly find out if someone you know is gay.

But I seem to notice a certain look that gay men have. In that setting, many of the gay men there are searching for hook-ups, and to do that, they have to make sure others know that they are gay. But we took one look at their faces and we knew they were gay. Can you tell with those who are in denial, have casual acceptance, and are in-your-face flamboyant?

Here are some of the findings that speak to how we can decipher an individual’s sexual orientation: 1. 1. Some of them do try to follow the standards, because they feel more comfortable in that role or because they want others to recognize that they are gay. It is mainly in the face.

I know this sounds stupid, but I honestly would like to know if any dopers feel me on this. If not by mannerisms and rumor, then by a look. I notice this too. Unless you ask him directly, there's no surefire way to know if your man is gay or bi (and even then, he may not tell you).

Why not just say they are in the closet, like we do for the rest of the men in America? Because if we all can tell by looking at your face that you are gay, then you are kidding no one by insisting you are straight. Dressing and talking and acting in a way that they think gangsta thug straight boys act…but they still looked gay to me.

1. I hear you. Also, I am not saying that this look is unpleasant. I am just saying that I seem to notice it there. That is just how I perceive it…so yeah, it works with them too. A Cornell University study reports that the pupils of our eyes dilate when viewing sexual imagery that we find exciting.

However, there are dead giveaways, I find. Do His Pupils Dilate When He Looks at You? First of all, look for the bedroom eyes. I apologize in advance, but I am going to try to speak as honestly as possible, because it is the only way I can learn anything. It can be tricky to tell if someone is gay without asking them directly, but sometimes their behavior can give you clues.

Is that number equal for Black men? My best friend and I went to a gay club in Brooklyn a few years ago. For example, they might say things that suggest that they’re attracted to people of the same gender, like, “Wow, he’s got great abs!” or “She looks so hot in that dress.”.

I want to say right now, that some of the things I say in this post may read insensitive, stereotypical, and just down right uneducated and silly. But often times, when I see this…certain look…it seems that I am dead on about that person. More so than with gay women, but I notice it with them too.

I look at a bi male, and I see something in their face.